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Tips To Staying On Track

Thursday, April 15th, 2010

We’ve all been there, your doing soooooo well following your program and workout schedule…you see results but on any given day it never seems like enough for the amount of change you’ve included in your life. So what do you do? Start to panic that you wont reach your goal in time and then use that negative emotion to derail your progress and self sabotage. Yikes. Now what?

Take comfort in knowing that your not different in that respect. There is nothing freakish about that behavior, it’s unfortunately common. Many people go about the same cycle and it’s vicious enough to keep some individuals from their goals for a life time unless they seek out steps to change their “on again” “off again” ways.

So where should you start?

  • Tell people about your goals and express how much they mean to you. Tell the people you usually tell last because they actually call you out if they see you doing something totally contradictory- like drinking alcohol or reaching into the bread basket when your out to dinner. Yes, sometimes when it’s hard to be your own parent you have to entrust that task into another. That eyebrow raised surprised/questioning look still has a profound effect on your behavior.
  • Now surround yourself with people that care about YOU and your goals and understand them. This might mean making new friends at the gym, park, where ever but many times your drinking buddies now don’t make a great transition in fit pals that will support your lifestyle changes. Unfortunate but true. But if you hang around people that “drag you down” you have no one to blame but yourself.
  • Invest in your body and new lifestyle. The biggest returns you can get are on your body and health investments. They’ll never stop paying you back. But committing to change by enlisting the help of a professional, joining group training classes and purchasing comfortable training gear, tells YOU something about yourself. Not only are you committing to yourself but you’ll feel accountable. I personally recommend the gear because you start feeling the part of a fitness buff which is huge and you wont be turned off or distracted by draping sloppy old t shirts and pajama pants in your way or in the mirror. Feeling confident doesn’t have to pricey but you should dress for success along the way.  Make the investment and show yourself you really mean it for LIFE this time.
  • Last tip for today: don’t be afraid or avoid talking to someone when you start to self doubt, freak out about a deadline, or feel down about your progress. We attach a lot of emotion to the way we look and feel about our bodies and in the beginning you’ll have plenty of emotional days that can lead to self sabotage. Its normal, but not excusable now that you know you’re not alone AND you know you should get those feelings out.  A true fit pal can talk you down off the kitchen counter instead of offering you a pint of Ben & Jerry’s and for that you will know you have a real friend for life.  ;)

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Now keep rockin’ and remember, you spent a lifetime building the body you have. You can’t undo it all in a month but you sure can have successes your entire journey!

Luxuriate In Your Fat Loss Results

Monday, March 8th, 2010

No big shocker that when your trying to change your body composition aka get “toned” and tight while ditching the lunch lady arms, you have to find other ways to celebrate and luxuriate beyond food. Our culture, scratch that, MOST cultures surround good times with celebratory meals, sugary cakes and liquor. So. What now? What about you? Relax, as soon as your done pouting about not being a ringleader in the food festivities, you’ll come up with something better. Better for you both physically AND mentally. Finding other ways to feel like your treating yourself on a regular basis will be a pivotal tool in your long term results and most importantly-happiness with your lifestyle.  So when the true celebrations roll around, you fitness has earned your the right to enjoy. 

It could be a hobby, a simple everyday luxury like a cup of coffee and 10 minutes of silence, or whatever works for you. So I wanted to open this blog up for you to support each other with some great ideas to get through the initial or final stages of a nutrition program that is build for results and not always for comfort. I’ll share a couple of mine and I hope to get some more great ideas from all of you. Coffee with friends

  • Take a relaxing, hot shower (a great escape I turn to time to time to unwind) Always feels like a fresh start
  • Playtime with the pup. He’s always silly and ready to go. Pets have a knack of loosening up even the tightest cranky pants
  • A hot cup of coffee or uniquely flavored tea. I take my time with it and choose flavors (sugar free for coffee) that appease whatever cravings I may have.  Do one better and spend this chill time with some close friends and catch up.  Talking about your life-the good, bad and yes the little uglies here and there- will prevent your pent up emotions from steering you toward the fridge.
  • Read something. Watch tv for 5 minutes and you’ll probably see a half dozen fast food commercials. Not the greatest for fragile will power. Get lost in an interesting read and pass the munchie time by broadening your horizons. If your super busy, I get it, just set a timer for 15-30 minutes so you don’t procrastinate on important projects.
  • My favorite, I set a certain goal to have (blank) amount of really successful days or weeks and then reward myself with getting a massage for all my hard earned work and discipline.  Never fails to motivate me.  The key is to actually set a goal in order to win the prize.

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What’s for Breakfast?

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Day two is officially in!  Have you been logging your food?  If not, I bet if you opened a blank document on your computer screen you could remember everything you ate today (unless you really want to forget-in which case, you need to write it down as a reality check.)  You don’t actually think that just because no one saw or it’s not on paper, that it doesn’t count, do you?  Just do it already and get the ball rolling on positive changes.

For those of you already over the first mission-starting a food journal, we’re moving on.  What did you have for breakfast today?  I had 1% low fat cottage cheese, apple and organic peanut butter.  I have to take my breakfast on the go by 5:30 every morning so that works for me.  BUT I have other options ready to go for mornings I’m not in a rush and an option for when I’m in oops-I-hit-snooze-4-times mode, so that I never risk skipping the most important meal of the day. Just look how happy it makes this fella!
Happy Omlette Guy

Eating a well balanced healthy breakfast is essential to firing up your metabolism, balancing your blood sugar and assisting you in much better decision making at your next meal or snack.  You simply cannot afford to slack off on meal one not only for the above reasons but also for the mental aspect.  If you feel like you screwed things up first thing, and tell yourself “you’re off” or you’re a failure at your new program, well then, you’ll most likely live out that self-defeating mantra.  So shape up and get ready for…whatever the morning throws your way.

What do some simple, well rounded Meal #1s look like?

  • 1 omega egg with 5 whites and veggies, 1/2 cup oats & 3 fish oil
  • 1 cup 1% cottage cheese w/ large apple & Tbs Organic Nut Butter (try slicing the apple into the cottage cheese and adding cinnamon)
  • (better than a skipped meal)-Protein shake in water, almonds and any piece of fruit I can grab

When it comes down to it there is no such thing as a good excuse.  Keep your shopping list tailoring to the reality that rough days happen, oversleeping happens and you need to have the basic supplies to keep up with life.

Please feel free to post your fave breakfast solutions!  You may just help someone find a new fave or find one yourself!
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Monday, February 15th, 2010

My Journey Down The Aisle

News Flash!  For those of you who don’t know, Mike Hanley from The Training Studio & HanleyStrength.Com and I are getting hitched in June and beginning our life as a Super, Butt-Kickin Duo!
Changing lives, fighting lovehandles and sculpting tushes on a daily basis. Super Duo

BUT!  That doesn’t mean that the hectic wedding planning and long days at the studio don’t take it’s toll on my energy levels just like the next working girl.  When It finally comes down to that little window when I need to squeeze in the “me time” to make sure I feel and look my best for our big day, I have to admit, I’m feeling a bit lackluster.  I’m also not going to name names by mentioning Holly, Jaime and Mara as Co-Bride-To-Be-Babes and the slew of beautiful ladies like Laura, Diesel, Nicole, Jackie, Amy, Jamie….the list goes on, who will be strolling down the aisle in honor of their Rock Star Friend status to the brides to be as well.  Life’s a stage ladies!  So lets team up and give it our best side!

Fit Bridal Pary

I’m turning my blog into a support forum for ANYONE who wants to make changes, stay motivated, learn new diet and exercise tips and feel like they have a place to check in on a regular basis.  Making sacrifices in your lifestyle to get results doesn’t have to be a drag.  So let’s all keep putting our best foot forward “left together, right together, left together….” and make the journey down the aisle, or to the beach, or where ever your vision takes you-together!

My first results-driven tip?  Start your food journal today!  This is a must if you want to know what’s working and what’s not.  Feel free to post your meals on the blog. It can help keep you feeling accountable and you will have someone to glance at it and offer suggestions.  I started my log up today as well.  I use a free online food journaling program called FitDay check it out.  It won’t cost you a dime.  Join The Journey AND the Body Blog for better strategies and more support! Post if you’re on board!

Saturday, January 2nd, 2010

**BE INSPIRED TO BE A BETTER YOU**

We all have learned that looking at our weaknesses is essential for progress.

Equally important is letting go of the limitations you cannot change

and recognizing your strengths,

allowing you to be the

BEST YOU

possible!

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New Year’s Resolution to Quit Crash Dieting

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

I bet many of you are already thinking it…it seems to be the time of year when you move past making wish lists for your loved ones and start scratching up a wish list for yourself in the New Year.  With the blur of glitter, tinsel and candle light fading fast you find the time to evaluate yourself and your life over the past year.  Do you remember what you vowed to do last year?  Well?  Dare I ask?  There is no shame in not being able to achieve all your fitness or weight loss goals all by yourself.  There IS shame in knowing you need guidance and the proper tools to succeed but do nothing to seek out a solution.

    Health and a great body are not as ridiculously expensive or out of reach as the media would have you believe.  You do not need personal chefs, a trainer 7 days a week for two workouts per day and a closet full of ipod-ready, climate proof training apparel dangling neatly over a slew of top of the line fitness shoes and those lame booty lifter sandals in every shade available.  Would it help?  Probably not even.  Because everyone’s results start upstairs.  No, I’m not talking about the level 2 cardio deck at your local gym. You’re results start in your mind-your attitude, motivation, effort to seek out quality knowledge and strategies that will once and for all help you achieve that elusive fit body.

    So step 1. Resolve to STOP crash dieting and overtraining for a month before you feel like crap and quit.  If that cliche’ worked, everyone in the world would be fit and fabulous by spring.  So why not try something new? Something that has potential to change your life and leave your resolutions for something more profound than losing weight.

    Step 2. Write down your goals and collect your measurement tools.  For example, if you want to fit into your size 5 jeans comfortably enough to not have to do squats to stretch them out before a night on the town ;) then pull those jeans out of the drawer and keep them accessible to gauge your progress.  You can also pull out a favorite bathing suit and take pictures-front back and side.  NOBODY wants to but its motivating and you’ll be glad you have them to compare to new ones later.  Lastly, notice I didn’t say lose 40 pounds.  Forget the scale and go for the “look” you’ve always wanted, not some random number.

    Step 3. Clean up your diet.  Ditch meals in wrappers or boxes like snack bars, cereals, frozen meals and other processed foods.  Opt for natural sources of food like lean proteins, veggies, fruits and nuts.  Sound too simple?  Well, if your hooked on junk food it can be a challenge but it’s only hard if you make it hard.  What do I mean by that?  Calling your boyfriend is easy, calling him when you want to dump him? Seems hard.  But its still just a phone call.  It’s all in how you perceive it.  So when you go to grab a snickers or bagel with cream cheese and you remember you should be eating natural foods… you decide either stick to your goals and find something healthy you like, or you eat it anyway.  Not a hard choice.  Just a choice.

    I know that this can be YOUR YEAR.  Because I’ve seen many finally have “their year” and make it happen for themselves.  It’s doable.  But first things first, don’t do what you did last year and start on step one!

    The Metabolism Myth

    Monday, April 6th, 2009

    One of the biggest myths and misconceptions in weight loss is telling yourself that your body is what’s holding you back from your fitness goals and your genetics are the blame. I’m sure you’ve all heard someone out of shape say “I just can’t lose weight, I have a slow metabolism!” Well, I have heard this many times and seen it proven wrong many times, so it’s my pleasure to break the good news to you…YOUR METABLOLISM IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT.

    You might not be in the 1% of genetically gifted individuals that can eat whatever they want, but we average Joes’ just need to get over it. There will always be someone out there that genetically breaks the rules. For instance, that 98 year old neighbor that has smoked two packs of cigarettes a day and eaten junk food their whole life but has no health issues. Or that girl friend of yours that eats buttered bagels and cheesy tuna melts for lunch but never gains a pound. Well get off the pity pot because there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a normal or average metabolism.

    If you come from an overweight family, or have hereditary thyroid issues, this just means that you may be predisposed to having to work harder at your fitness goals. It is by no means a lifelong sentence to be fat or out of shape. People with a family history of high blood pressure, may have high-ER blood pressure but through training and nutrition can keep it within normal range. This person isn’t destined to have a coronary if they take good care of their body.

    On the other hand, I must tell you it is also common to take a normal metabolism and slow it down by yo-yo dieting, crash dieting, fasting methods and/or an unfit sedentary lifestyle. But again, the good news is that you can rebuild and make a better metabolism and well, the bad news is that you don’t have that excuse anymore. So, let’s stop finger pointing at the genetically elite. Honestly, I can’t remember the last time I looked at an Olympic Sprinter and complained to my friends that I couldn’t sprint to my mail box in 2.3 seconds. Catch my drift? ;)

    Please post comments and thoughts and stay tuned for tips on building a healthy, fat-burning metabolism!

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